hello everyone and hope what i post is of use at least to one person


we i hope i can give some of you some tips on how to find out or spot the signs.

SEVERAL YEARS AGO I GOT TOGETHER WITH A MARRIED MAN AND YES I WAS MARRIED ALSO AND WE HAD AN AFFAIR THAT LASTED A WHILE.
MINE STARTED BECAUSE I WAS BORED WITH THE WAY MY MARRIAGE WAS GOING AND I THOUGHT AN AFFAIR WOULD HELP ME GET OUT OF IT.
I WAS APPROACHED BY A RELATION OF MY HUSBANDS AT THE TIME WHO CLAIMED HE WAS IN A MARRIAGE WHERE HE ONLY GOT SEX ON LIKE A ONCE A WEEK OR EVERY SECOND WEEK BASIS,I NEVER DID FIND OUT IF THIS WAS TRUE.

1.WATCH THE MOBILE PHONE USE
2.MAKE SURE THEY HAVEN`T GOT  A SECOND MOBILE
3.TRY AND GET EACH OTHERS PASSWORDS AND PASS CODES TO EVERY THING LIKE 4.MOBILE  PHONES AND EMAILS AND COMPUTERS AND TABLETS (EVERYTHING)
IF THEY DONT GIVE IT AND YOU GET A LECTURE ABOUT PASSWORDS AND CODES BEING PRIVATE.(ALARM BELLS)NOT PRIVATE IF NOTHING TO HIDE.
5,WHEN ON A PHONE CHATTING MAKE SURE YOU STAY CLOSE TO YOUR PARTNER.
6.IF THEY LIKE TO GO OUT ON THERE OWN WHEN YOU USED TO DO THINGS TOGETHER.
7.BEST ON IS WHEN SAID PERSON IS AT WORK TRY MEETING UP UNANNOUNCED AT PLACE OF WORK AND SURPRISE THEM.
8.AND IF YOU THING YOUR PARTNER IS PLAYING AROUND WITH A FRIEND OR FAMILY MEMBER STAY CLOSE TO YOU PARTNER WHEN YOU HAVE ANYONE VISIT YOU.
9.BEST ONE I LIKE IS IF YOU ARE ABLE TO GO DOWN PARTNERS PHONE MAKE SURE YOU KNOW ALL THE CONTACTS ON IT AND IF YOU ARE NOT SURE WHEN YOU GET A CHANCE CALL THE NUMBER SEE IF YOU NO WHO IT IS.
10 YOU ARE PROBABLY EITHER SITTING BESIDE THE OTHER WOMAN/MAN RIGHT NOW AND NOT NO IT AS IT CAN EVEN BE YOUR BEST FRIEND HE IS WITH RIGHT NOW.